JoAnna Garcia Swisher.Photo:courtesy netflix

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JoAnna Garcia Swisheris ready for fans to see all of the highs and lows that will come on this season ofThe Ultimatum: Queer Love.
As Netflix drops thenewest season of the reality show— which is a continuation of its hit seriesThe Ultimatum— Garcia Swisher, 43, opens up to PEOPLE about what it was like stepping into the hosting role.
However, not long after the excitement, the pressure set in for the actress. “I thought, ‘Oh my gosh, I’ve never done this before. How do I do this? How do I be there for them? How do I do all of it?'” she recalls.
JoAnna Garcia Swisher.courtesy netflix

Besides the support from the cast, Garcia Swisher says she turned toThe Ultimatumseason 1 hostsNickandVanessa Lacheyfor advice.
“Of course I did [reach out to them],” she says. “Every season is different, I think. And so it’s like, you can’t really predict everything. But I went into this with an open heart, I tried to be the host that I felt was most true to me, and that’s sort of the advice that Vanessa [gave]:Just be you. And I thought, ‘OK, here you go.'”
Lexi and Rae from The Ultimatum: Queer Love.courtesy netflix

This season’s couples consist of: Lexi, 25, who issued an ultimatum to Rae, 27; Mildred, 33, who issued an ultimatum toTiff, 32; Yoly, 34, who issued an ultimatum to Mal, 36; Sam, 31, who issued an ultimatum to Aussie, 42, and Xander, 30, who issued an ultimatum to Vanessa, 30.
Sam and Aussie on The Ultimatum: Queer Love.courtesy netflix

Garcia Swisher got a front row seat to the drama as she watched the five pairs develop new connections with the other couples and choose a partner for the trial marriages. (The trial marriage partnerships currently consist of: Lexi and Mal, Mildred and Aussie, Xander and Yoly, Vanessa and Rae, and Tiff and Sam.)
Tiff and Mildred on The Ultimatum: Queer Love.courtesy netflix

While helping the cast navigate their new “marriages" and ongoing love troubles, she says she leaned into her own marriage to former MLB playerNick Swisherfor inspiration.
“It’s so interesting. My husband, I feel like he would do this job so beautifully too. He has so much respect for people in general and is such a great judge of character,” she shares. “Someone asked me [for] my five dating tips and the first one I gave was, ‘You’re the prize.’ Because my husband literally exists in this world believing that with every ounce of his being, no matter who you are, what you are, my husband always says, ‘You are the prize.'”
“And if you can really embody that notion, you can navigate things a lot easier or just have a lot more faith in the process,” she continues. “And so it left me feeling like there were so many times where I was sitting in that chair with these people and I thought, ‘I wonder what Nick would say in this moment.’ Because I have so much respect for him in that way. And I think he would add a lot of value.”
She adds, “And so our relationship and how he’s shown up for me really was able to shine through in the way that I was able to show up for them.”
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The first four episodes ofThe Ultimatum: Queer Loveare now streaming on Netflix.
source: people.com