That surprised Windey, 32, too.
The Viewco-hostSunny Hostinsaid she “didn’t see that twist coming.”
Windey then shared how and when she came to the realization.
“I was trying to make the relationship work afterBachelorette,” Windey began, referring to her engagement toErich Schwer. “And then I had finally had time to settle in L.A. and I think it was always a whisper in me that just got louder and louder and I didn’t really know to pay attention to it.”
The reality star admitted that, at first, she felt a bit ashamed about liking a woman.
“When this happens, there’s some shame, obviously, surround it,” Windey said. “So I think had to a little bit navigate through the shame. Like, what is it? Where’s it coming from? But ultimately, like I said, I always just want to kind of do me, do what I want, figure it out later.”
Now, Windey said of her identity, “I’m proud.”
Co-hostJoy Beharasked Windey if she only plans to date girls going forward.
“I think so,” Windey responded. “I think it’s just my girl… she’s the best.”
TheDancing with the Starsseason 31 runner-up said she felt she owed it to herself, her girlfriend and her fans to be honest.
“Knowing how much people really care, I just want to be honest,” Windey said. “I don’t want to like, live and not be living my full truth. I don’t want to do that to myself. I don’t want to do it to my girlfriend. I don’t want to do it to other people who really care about me and feel like they know me.”
Windey also wanted people to hear her life update directly from her.
Windey also said that she hadn’t told her her ex Schwer, 30, about her new relationship prior to coming onThe View.
“Love you with my entire heart and soul,” Windey’s co-BacheloretteRachel Recchiawrote.
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Another former Bachelorette,Kaitlyn Bristowe, wrote that she “needed this love story!!”
Becca Tilley, who is dating singerHayley Kioko, commented, “We love a girls girl,” and Kioko, 34, wrote, “Summer’s for the girls.”
Windey also received support from GLAAD, the world’s largest Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer (LGBTQ) media advocacy organization.
source: people.com
